16 year old dating 50 year old
It's because of this urban legend that has gone around forever.
Based upon this rule, the only time that a man can date a woman his own age is when he's 14 years old (because half of 14 is seven, and seven plus seven is 14).
I was having breakfast the other day with a friend who was giving dating advice to his son.
For purposes of his anonymity, I am going to call just call him "Son." My friend said, "Son, you're 18 years old, so I am going to tell you how you date.
If you wear some clothes, someone is going to tell you it's too short, too tight, too long, to colourful, too sexy and on.on. Yes, people will tell you a 16 year old married a 40, a 20 years old with a 38 years old, 3o with a 18 year old….blah blah and will make it that they so care for you. If they don’t then anything, and everything, from age, distance, time, this feeling or that feeling will be an excuse to be used to not make it work. Have the DON' T GIVE A FUCK ATTITUDE in your mind. Like I don't need anyone's acceptance and validation too.So the ripe old age of 14 -- the age when you still have pimples, are as insecure as can be and are unlikely to get anything more than a kiss from a woman your own age -- is the only time when you can enjoy dating a woman your own age? Add seven to that, so you can date a 12-year-old -- an older woman"?What about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "I'm ready to date, Dad"? There is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. You're 20 years old and, under this rule, you can date a 17-year-old. There you are in college, and you get to go back to high school again to find a girlfriend.You can be young, legal age, 16 to 50 and someone, somewhere will tell you this is wrong, this not right, don’t do this because…because….because. It's just I know what I know and what I know is....people just tell you their..perception...their reality..nothing else but that. You have your own but in following it you must own it. It needs courage, communication, skills, knowledge, and lots of things that both of you need to bring together.You will hear people say this relationship is the deal, this one isn't. If you knew, just knew, the shit that I had to go through coming from a tight religious cultural community and my life story..jaw would probably drop. You must be accountable for it and you cannot blame anyone if something happens but you can both take all the credit for making it work. Relationships die even when they same age, same country, same beliefs, same whatever. Then together, it is you and him, and the world can...raise the middle finger in your mind.